When you come to a major crossroads in your life and your faced with staying on the familiar path or veering off onto the road less traveled, what do you do? I find myself faced with this a life changing decision and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to regret my decision in two years no matter which path I choose. So how do you go about making that decision? How do you weigh all the options and decide which is the best fit for you and your family? Because ultimately, it impacts us all.
This is probably one of the biggest decisions I’ve ever had to make. I made a similar decision once before and it ended up being the biggest regret of my life. However, the circumstances were far different than they are with this decision. I just don’t want it to end up the way it did before.
I keep thinking that the right decision is an easy one to make. But then again, is that really true? I mean when it is a major life altering decision, do they ever just come easy? I’m so confused and I just don’t know what to do. Its a very hard decision.
I wish I had a crystal ball I could look into and find the answer. The damn Magic 8 ball keeps changing its mind too! I wish someone could tell me what the right thing to do is. My heart is telling me one thing and my head is telling me the other. So which do I follow?
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Whatever it is, I’m sure you’ll do the right thing! Get out a pad of paper and start jotting down all the pros and cons…some will come to you throughout the day and once you see them all written down in one place I bet the answer will be clear as day. (((HUGS)))
I hate those kinds of decisions. I think if you really look at it, you already know the answer. Go with it. As long as you dont shut your blog down, I am with you 100%!
my favorite line in the Bill Clinton biography referred to something like… ” Our lives are not only shaped by the opportunities we take…but by the ones we turn down”. So True.
Good Luck!
Shane
Don’t worry the blog will be staying put! I need something to keep my sanity through all this
Hugs sweets. I hope you can come to a descion soon for you. I am a list person I weigh the pros and cons of each . One of my favorite lines in a song is ” I am not scared of the cracks in the crystal ball, cracks in the crystal ball” meaning sometimes the harder the choice is its ok to be scared but some times you have to take that leap of faith.
Chin up and follow your heart!
Thank you Sarah!
We recently had to make a life chaning decison…I say go with your gut and remember what ever decison you make it was ment to be that one! I know i am no help! Good luck
(((((NICOLE))))) You will make the right decision! You just have to really think about it. Lay down the pros and cons then go for it! You are an amazing mother and woman. You will overcome anything!
I love you! Thank you!
I’m sure whatever it is you will make the right decision. I hope whatever it is works for you! ((hugs))
Make a list of the pros and then the cons and compare them…which ones out weight the others? Which ones are the big ones that you can’t live or live without?
Girl… I am sorry I have been vacant.. I hope you are doing well. We are having our own little crisis here.. I hope you and Hunter are well… text me soon… we should chat!