Not as Single as I Claim to be

i've got a secret
I have a secret to tell you all.  So hopefully you all read my post Confessions of a Serial Dater, but what I haven’t disclosed on my blog is that I have been actually seeing somebody for over a month and a half.   Still brandy spanking new.  And we are taking it S-L-O-W.  If you stalk visit my facebook page you would have already noticed this.  Why?  Because there are pictures posted of us from the Patriots game 2 weeks ago that we went to.  I decided to share this with you now because I am really hoping and thinking that it is going somewhere.  He’s a hunk.  That’s what i call him.  Seriously, when i think of him, that’s the word that best describes him.  Hunk.   He looks like a cross between Matt Damon and Chris Isaak (the guy who sang “Wicked Game”). No lie.  But obviously he is much more than just looks.

He’s ten years older than I am….which is great because we are both at the same places in our lives.  We’re both looking to settle down, get married, have kids, the whole nine yards.  He is a corrections officer (works in a maximum security prison).    He’s never been married and has no kids….he lived the single bachelor party life and got it all out of the way.  Good for me.  And he cooks.  He’s a great cook.   I was sick a few weeks ago and he made me homemade chicken soup and brought it over to me.  Ok, I don’t even know how to make homemade chicken soup!  That’s a keeper right there.   We’re going out for my birthday on Friday and Saturday he invited me to go to his step-niece’s wedding.  So I invited him to my cousins wedding at the end of October and he said yes (he’s planning ahead *wink wink*).

He has only met Hunter a few times and they were all brief encounters.  Which is great because since we are taking things slow, i don’t want Hunter to get attached.  Okay, so that is all the information I’m going to divulge right now because I don’t want to jinx anything.  My time is due!  And I deserve a good guy finally damnit!  But you all know I love to share my dating stories with you….it allows you to live vicariously through me if you’re married, so I’m sure there will be more stories to come.

Oh and one more thing….No i haven’t and wil NOT Google him!

About Blondie

Nicole (aka Blondie) is a single mom to one little boy. Follow her journey as she shares her opinions on everything from products to movies to life in the dating scene, work, and motherhood while trying to find the humor in it all.

Comments

  1. Good for you! Everyone deserves a good man. I’m so happy that you’ve founds someone that has the same goals and dreams as you do! Can’t wait to hear more!

  2. Kim Rowley says:

    Congrats to you! I’ve been thinking about blogging about the same thing, too, but don’t want to jinx it yet! Isn’t LOVE fun?

  3. Gena Morris says:

    I am so happy you are happy! You deserve all the happiness in the world and don’t forget it!

  4. Jenn says:

    Darlin’ I noticed that on FB but didnt say anything. I am SUPER happy for you and I pray it continues and lasts and lasts… wishing you 2 the best!

  5. I think that is awesome that you have someone in your life! You deserve it so much , i wish you all the luck and can’t wait to hear more about your HUNK!

  6. Stefanie says:

    Oh YAY!!! I’m so happy for you! He’s gorgeous AND he cooks? WOW! That is a keeper! ;) I wish you all the luck and happiness. Hope you had fun on your birthday night out.

  7. Jenna says:

    Yay!!!

  8. lisa p says:

    ooooh secrets! secrets!

  9. Annie says:

    LOL I love this post! What a funny way to tell everyone you have a signficant other :) Hooray!! I hope you have a wonderful and happy relationship :)

    And 10 years? To me that is a lot, but I honestly do believe age is relative. I wish you all the best!

  10. Cat says:

    Oh honey, I’m crossing my fingers for you. He sounds like a dream come true and the idea of moving slow is a GREAT one.

  11. trisha says:

    wow, he cooked for you and brought it over? Is he gay? LOL

    trisha

  12. Andrea H says:

    Yay for you! I hope your relationship continues to grow and blossom :)

  13. Shannon says:

    That’s wonderful that you have found someone. I hope and pray it all works out if it’s meant to be, but in the meantime have fun!

  14. Kelly W says:

    good for you.

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