Never Google A Boyfriend

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I did this once.   Probably about 5 or 6 years ago.   To me its the equivalent of going through his text messages, emails, or stalking his facebook wall to see all the chicks who have written on it in the past 6 months even before you knew him.  You’re setting yourself up for heartache and aggravation.  You’re basically just looking for things that you don’t really want to find out.

When you Google search my name a whole bunch of people from across the country pop up.  Its actually kind of funny to see how many other girls share my same name.  Okay, well its a little freaky too.

So back to my original story.  I started dating this guy about 5 or 6 years ago and it was still early on in our relationship and I didn’t know him all that well, so I decided to google him.  I was expecting some things from his schooling (colleges, med school) to pop up and it did…along with his stuff about his residencies (he was a dr.).  The last thing that popped up in the search, i was totally not expecting.

He belonged to a swingers group.

Yep.  A Swinger.  Now I am all for whatever lifestyle you choose and I’m not knocking anything.  But this is not what i was expecting to find out through google.  Now before I go any further, he has a  VERY unique name.  There were only three or four things listed for his name when i did the search, so its not likely that it could be mistaken as someone else.

Well, I of course had no choice but to tell him what I did and what i found out to see if it was true and if it was really him.  I needed to know before I ended up at some hotel room with a bunch of naked people, ya know.  So i asked and he said Yes.  Yes, he was a swinger.  Single man swinger.  Then he asked if I wanted to go.    Ummmm…hell no!  I just wanted to know if it was true so  I could turn and run!  Needless to say, that was the end of that relationship.

That was the end of my googleing boyfriends.  Although I am glad that i found out b/c i’m not into that and i did get out of that relationship before went any further.  So unless you are prepared for whatever google might produce…..Don’t Google a Boyfriend.

About Blondie

Nicole (aka Blondie) is a single mom to one little boy. Follow her journey as she shares her opinions on everything from products to movies to life in the dating scene, work, and motherhood while trying to find the humor in it all.

Comments

  1. Jenn says:

    I am laughing because only you!! I can honestly say I dont think I have ever met a swinger but ya bever know!!

  2. I love this! I google myself and future/ex boyfriends and it is always interesting what you find. While I don’t have as great a story as yours, my current boyfriend has a very unique name and I have learned a lot about him — in a very good way. It has allowed me to relate to him on a different level. Anything that’s on the web is fair game!!

  3. I love this! I google myself and future/ex boyfriends all the time and it is always provides interesting information! While I don’t have the same exciting story as you, I have learned some important things about my current boyfriend who has a very unique name. It has actually allowed me to relate to him more deeply as a result. In the end, anything on the web is fair game!

  4. I have never thought of doing that , but I don’t think that I would want to! I would truly be scared to find out something! Ya i think I would be a little worried about ending up in a situation that I would not be comfy in! Hope you have a great week.

  5. Stefanie says:

    lmao That’s gross! Well at least Google saved you a couple months from a relationship that wasn’t what you wanted. lol ;)

  6. Kim says:

    Hey! I’ve got something for you at my blog! :)

  7. Gena Morris says:

    LMAO but it’s so much fun. LOL I’ve done it. I am glad it didn’t turn anything like that up. BTW I have been hit on by a married couple! Talk about odd!! Remind me one day and I’ll tell you all about it

  8. Jessica says:

    OMG you never have a REAL private life once you put anything out there.

  9. Kristie says:

    All right I admit it, I’ve done it =)

  10. Lee says:

    Wow a Swingers club. That’ll teach ya.

    Lee

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